You Catch More Bears With Honey Than With Vinegar

The old adage teaches us that you catch more bears with honey than with vinegar.

My experience has shown that there are 2 different camps that vocally oppose the Mormon Church.
1) Christians who honestly feel that faith alone will bring us the Grace of God and they sincerely want to save us from our errors.
2) Former members of the Mormon Church who don't want to live the Gospel and search for every opportunity to rationalize their rebellion.

Both groups are usually so well versed in their dogma that rational dialog proves to be pointless in changing lives. What does make a difference, is sincere acts of caring, concern, and service. In other words, simply living the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

The best example of this is a recent documentary by Bryan Hall called "Us and Them, Religious Rivalry in America". After crossing the country searching for the reason behind the animosity, Mr. Hall realizes that the solution to all the cacophony is the honest implementation of the Gospel.

Rather than arguing with protesters at General Conference, we should be giving them water, hot chocolate, donuts, cookies, blankets, etc., to make their stay easier and more comfortable. Kind words of appreciation for their unwavering faith in Christ will go further to positively impact the heart than heated dialogue and caustic confrontation.

We defend the Savior better by sharing understanding and compassion, lifting up the arms that hang down, and encircling all people with the arms of love. We can not teach positive principles using negative techniques.

So, when someone confronts you about the Church; listen quietly to their concerns, sincerely express your love for them, and share your simple testimony of your love for your Savior and your gratitude for his Atonement in your life.

That is the Savior's way.